The paradox of tolerance And paradox of acceptance
There are two paradox here.
The paradox of tolerance
And the paradox of acceptance. This I don't have a hard answer for.
While they both sound like the same problem, they are 2 halves of a larger problem.
What I really resonated with is the point about following and trying to fit in. There will be a point in any artist's life where they cater to a specific label. I wouldn't say that is a bad thing, but we must be critical in those moments and ask ourselves if this label is really in it for our best interests or just making a bag.
Be vocal in your circle. Keep a close nit of friends who you feel safe opening up to about others and to help evaluate any potential collaborators